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Preparing Her For The Path

in Everyday, Family on 06/24/15

When I dropped my SweetGirl off at Junior Kindergarten, she was just shy of her fourth birthday.  A quiet, bright-eyed, inquisitive little thing; she was clearly more ready for the transition to “big school” than I was.  On that sunny day in September I put on a brave face, tied her blonde tendrils into teeny tiny pony tails, and grasped her little hand as we made the long walk through the Kindergarten parking lot. I greeted teachers and other parents with a fake smile plastered to my face, gave my baby a quick kiss goodbye, and threw my sunglasses on my face to hide the tears filling my eyes.  How could my little one be heading off to school?  Where had the time gone?  Would this wee three year old girl be okay without me?

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Fast forward to last night, another huge milestone, another need for waterproof mascara.  Grade 8 Graduation.  Now 13, my SweetGirl is once again proving to me she is more prepared for the life changes coming her way than I am.  As a Mama, I’ve done my best to prepare the child for the path, not the path for the child and my little girl; she’s not so little anymore.  Still my SweetGirl she’s now tall and graceful, and so much braver than she knows.  She’s inquisitive and caring always putting others before herself.  She’s fiercely loyal, quick witted with a quiet smile that’s ridiculously contagious if you’re lucky enough to catch it.

Last night it struck me, suddenly this tiny little blonde girl is all grown up.

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As I grasp her hand one more time, quickly trying to snap some pictures before the thunder storms we hear in the distance crashes down, I find myself flashing back to that little girl in the elementary school parking lot…..how far she has come, and all the incredible things that lay ahead for her.

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This kid; she wears her heart on her sleeve, cherishes her friends above all else, and makes me prouder every single day. Now graduated with Honours, I can’t wait to see what is next for her in this world.  I can’t wait to see what she accomplishes next.

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    1. Nolie says

      June 30, 2015 at 1:30 am

      WOW! They grow up way too quick. She is beautiful just like her mama.

      • Stephanie says

        July 1, 2015 at 10:38 am

        Oh you are too kind! And yes, they grow up so fast, before you know it you will be posting about your babes graduating!

    2. Soozle says

      June 29, 2015 at 8:17 am

      Congratulations to your gal on her milestone achievement! 🙂 Good luck in high school! 🙂

      • Stephanie says

        July 1, 2015 at 10:38 am

        Thank you! I can’ believe I’m now the Mama of two high schoolers!

    3. Deborah Pucci says

      June 28, 2015 at 10:15 am

      You have done a wonderful job with both of your girls! You should be very proud of yourself and I know that they love you very much. Wow, she is so beautiful. Wishing her all the best during her High School years!

      • Stephanie says

        July 1, 2015 at 10:34 am

        Thanks so much for your kind words Deb. So blessed with these two girls and can’t wait to see what the future holds for them 🙂

    4. Silvia D says

      June 27, 2015 at 7:30 pm

      congrats! she is so pretty! good luck in high school!

      • Stephanie says

        July 1, 2015 at 10:33 am

        Thank you Silvia! She’s really looking forward to High School.

    5. heidi c. says

      June 26, 2015 at 9:40 pm

      Your daughter looks so grown-up! Congrats and good luck in high school!

      • Stephanie says

        July 1, 2015 at 10:33 am

        I have to admit, when she put that dress on, and had her hair and make-up done I caught my breath. I couldn’t believe how much older she looked!

    6. Sara Zielinski says

      June 25, 2015 at 1:26 pm

      She seems like a wonderful daughter.

      • Stephanie says

        July 1, 2015 at 10:32 am

        Thank you Sara, she is 🙂

    7. Buttons says

      June 24, 2015 at 6:36 pm

      Congratulations to your daughter.. The world needs more people like that, you did a great job Mom. I always think back to when my girls were off to school the first time even now when they are adults. Their first day without us to navigate this world. Take care.

      • Stephanie says

        July 1, 2015 at 10:25 am

        Thank you! I really do love every second with my girls. Can’t wait to see what the future holds for both of them 🙂

    8. Gigi says

      June 24, 2015 at 5:53 pm

      What a beautiful post! And a beautiful daughter. These next few years will fly by even faster, I’m afraid. But I feel that you have prepared her well for what the future holds.

      • Stephanie says

        July 1, 2015 at 10:24 am

        Oh no! Don’t tell me that! Someone needs to slow down the clock 🙂

    9. Rosie says

      June 24, 2015 at 4:33 pm

      awww she is a sweetie!!! and I think she takes after you!!!

      • Stephanie says

        July 1, 2015 at 10:23 am

        Confession: She has been called my “mini me” a few times!

    10. Judy Cowan says

      June 24, 2015 at 2:46 pm

      Congrats to your sweet girl, she is beautiful! Lovely pictures!

      • Stephanie says

        July 1, 2015 at 10:23 am

        Thanks Judy 🙂

    11. mrdisco says

      June 24, 2015 at 1:13 pm

      Those photos are really well done

      • Stephanie says

        July 1, 2015 at 10:22 am

        Thank you! I was so happy to have gotten some pictures in before a huge thunder storm rolled through.

    12. maggie says

      June 24, 2015 at 10:20 am

      lovely mom+daughter moments..congrats to you both!

      • Stephanie says

        July 1, 2015 at 10:22 am

        Thank you Maggie!

    13. Busy Bee Suz says

      June 24, 2015 at 10:10 am

      Oh, this is so sweet. Bittersweet. We want them to have all things possible, but yet, don’t really want to let go. She is as lovely as her Mama. XO

      • Stephanie says

        July 1, 2015 at 10:15 am

        You summed it up exactly. Bittersweet. I love that she’s forging ahead, just not sure I’m ready to let her go 🙂

    14. Catherine says

      June 24, 2015 at 9:57 am

      Oh they grow up so fast, and she is so gorgeous! Congratulation to both of you!

      • Stephanie says

        July 1, 2015 at 10:15 am

        Thank you so much Catherine!

    15. Melinda L. says

      June 24, 2015 at 9:09 am

      Awwwww proud mom and SweetGirl. It’s amazing how quickly time flies. Congrats SweetGirl on graduating Grade 8! Enjoy your high school years 🙂

      • Stephanie says

        July 1, 2015 at 10:14 am

        Thanks for your sweet words. Can’t wait to see what comes next for her!

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