Thousands of weddings happen across the country every day. Some will have been the result of years of planning, while others may have been pulled together in the space of a few short weeks. In any case, each wedding needs the perfect ingredients to make your big day extra special. With the year drawing to a close, people are already making plans for their 2019 weddings. Promises of new wedding dress trends, exotic honeymoon destinations, and fresh color palettes are keeping every bride and groom on their toes. To make sure you start your planning off the right way, it’s wise to follow some essential tips.
Establish the basics
Numerous people start their wedding preparations without any ideas in mind. This can lead to confusion, stress and rising costs, which is why it is always recommended that you find out some key basic features of your day before planning is in full swing. For example, knowing the size of your wedding: whether you want a large one, or a more intimate gathering.
To make sure you remain organized throughout your planning, it’s a good idea to store your wedding ideas in one place, keeping magazines, contacts and inspiration in a scrapbook. If you start off on the right foot, you can be assured that you will encounter minimal stress along the way.
You must always remember that your wedding should be about what you and your partner want, rather than what everyone else is telling you. Although taking on some advice is valuable, it is ultimately your wedding.
Once you have determined the key elements of your wedding, you can then set a budget. This budget must account for every aspect of your big day, but you should also set a back-up budget. This back-up fund will be your saving grace in times of financial stress, where problems can be solved without eating into your everyday savings.
If your budget is not within your ideal price range, you can use it to see where you can cut costs. Some people find that re-working a vintage dress, or pulling in favors from friends and family can be a huge help. However, if you wish to have each small detail of your dream day, you can always start saving in anticipation. Yard sales and couponing are both great ways you can do this. You could even set a later date for your wedding, which will give you more time to save.
Keep track of new trends
The fashion industry evolves to new heights every year, and weddings are no exception. If 2018 was anything to go by, 2019 is also set to be full of new wedding ideas. You can use these to bring your visions to life. The easiest and most affordable way of doing this is by investing in wedding magazines, which will chart all the up and coming trends for the months to come. Some people also like to visit wedding showcases, where dresses, shoes, and floral arrangements can be seen. The best thing about these trends is that you don’t always need to spend lots of money to recreate them.
If you have no time to dedicate to keeping up to date with modern trends, there is no need to panic. In fact, there are some timeless pieces in most good wedding stores that will enable you to plan a classic, beautiful day.
Consider the best time of year
Some people envision winter wonderland settings for their special day, whereas others would rather have their ceremony blessed by blue skies and warm weather. With people wishing to plan a local wedding, this is often the deciding factor in when people set their wedding date for. For those choosing to ignore seasonal regulations, you can always head further south for better weather conditions. If not, overseas weddings have always been a popular option for those seeking vivid sunsets and sunny days.
There is nothing quite as magical as a winter wedding, meaning some wedding planners will choose to venture up north or wait until the holidays. The only thing to bear in mind when planning a winter wedding is that there are many national celebrations occurring around this time, such as Christmas and Thanksgiving. These dates are something to take note of if you want your entire guest list to attend.
Don’t forget the honeymoon
When you are caught up in planning your wedding, it is easy to forget about the romantic aftermath. Your honeymoon is the first vacation you will be taking together as a married couple, so it should never be neglected. Some people even prefer it to their big day, with honeymoon planning acting as a fun break from wedding planning.
As with weddings, honeymoons have changed over the years. Where they used to be reserved exclusively for couples, they now encompass what it means to be married in the modern world. This means that some couples choose glamping retreats over beach getaways, and others may choose to bring the whole family along to share in their memories. Those hoping to do this can find a blissful family-friendly resort to stay in. If you are hoping to take a much-needed break from wedding planning, you can always visit some prospective destinations to help you decide.
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Emily J says
Wow how things are evolving slowly. Hubby and I are hoping to renew our vows sometime in the future.
ivy pluchinsky says
Such great tips and ideas! A wedding can be stressful but it doesn’t have to be if you plan ahead
Stephanie says
The planning can be half the fun…as long as you have the time 🙂
Marco Bairos says
When my wife and I got married we defiantly did something similar
Stephanie says
Oh how wonderful! A well planned wedding is such a joy to attend.
Rosanne Robinson says
Helpful tips, wedding venues have changed a lot since I got married over 44 years ago!
Donna Desforges says
Nice post, but after 3 weddings, I’m done! Maybe I can plan my son’s wedding one day?
Stephanie says
LOL That sounds fair. At least now you know what you like?
Amy Heffernan says
Great tips! It would be great to finally tie the knot this year with hubby but totally not in our budget 🙁 Ah maybe someday!
Stephanie says
It all starts with a dream!
Jill MacAulay says
Setting a budget and sticking to it when planning a wedding is so important !
Stephanie says
It’s so easy for that budget to get out of control. You’re right, you have to stick with the plan!
Matthew Tully says
Budget was the big thing for us. We felt that our big day shouldn’t be us going into debt so others could enjoy a party. Great tile Steph!
Stephanie says
You are so right! You don’t want to start out your married life owing a whole lot of money!
Grieta Allison says
This is so useful and weddings are so beautiful and definitely can be very stressful.
We skipped all that and had a super simple ceremony and little celebration. So the planning stress didn’t take it away from what really mattered.
Kuddos to all the couple’s that do it properly haha
Stephanie says
It sounds like you did it properly too! Everyone’s dream is different, there’s not right or wrong way. 🙂
janine a says
budgeting is so key! hard to start but well worth it or the wedding can really get away from you
Stephanie says
One little decision can snowball into a big over budget event. It’s important to keep an eye on that bottom line!
Viv sluys says
Winter weddings are beautiful but remember this won’t only be a wedding date but your anniversary as well! Some dates make planning an anniversary date difficult. Like December 24-January 5!
Stephanie says
This is an excellent point!
Donna L. says
Good advice, thanks.
Stephanie says
Happy to help! Thanks for stopping by!
Jennifer (@JusticeSadie) Conlin says
Great Tips. I wish I had this info first time around.
Stephanie says
Maybe you will be able to pass along the info someone you love 🙂
Melissa Faulkner says
Very concise tips!
Stephanie says
Thanks Melissa!
AD says
Great tips! I would definitely suggest having a wedding in the “off season” or less popular times of the year. The savings financially are incredible.
Stephanie says
You are so right, everything from florists to photographers have special deals in the off season!